Leadership. It’s a word we hear most days in business, often dressed in power suits, strategy meetings, and a relentless drive to perform. The truth is that leadership is not about that or spreadsheets or LinkedIn endorsements. Leadership is about being magnetic, impactful and
something far more intimate – something as primal as your own body?
We are talking about magnetic leadership coming from your sexual energy – stay with me. This isn’t about being inappropriate in the office. It’s about leading from a place of integration, authenticity and unapologetic aliveness. The truth is you can’t lead others powerfully if you’re fragmented within yourself.
For too long, we’ve been conditioned to separate our personal and professional selves. You know the drill, be professional and never mention the fact that you’re a whole human with feelings, desires, and an actual body – human body.
The result? Leadership that’s performative, exhausting, and deeply disconnected.
True leadership is the kind that moves people, inspires change and transforms cultures. True leadership means no longer abandoning the parts of you that don’t fit into a boardroom-friendly bio. It means allowing your full self to show up – grounded, embodied, and connected.
When you reclaim the parts of you that have been hidden, shamed, or suppressed – including your sexual energy – you tap into a force that fuels creativity, confidence, intuition and influence.
Intimacy in leadership isn’t about getting touchy-feely or crossing professional lines. It’s about presence, it’s about being fully in the room, grounded in yourself, and able to connect with others from a place of honesty and vulnerability.
When you’re intimate with yourself – your truth, your energy, your yes’s and your no’s = people feel it. Teams feel safer. Conversations go deeper. You lead with a quiet power that doesn’t need to shout.
It’s less “power pose”, more “authentic presence”. And it works. Believe me ….it works …..
Integrity is about alignment. When your words, your actions, and your energy all point in the same direction. This is when people trust you despite your job title.
That’s where embodiment comes in. When you’re connected to your body, your nervous system, and your somatic intelligence, you’re able to respond – not react. You show up with clarity and consistency. You don’t just talk leadership – you are it.
Your energy is your innate, vital life force. The spark that makes you magnetic, creative and, even a little dangerous -in the best way. Your life force is your sexual energy and when you reclaim it and harness it you not only improve your sex life but it drives your capacity to innovate, to connect, to stand up and say, “This is who I am, and this is what I’m here to do.”
When leaders are embodied and empowered, everything shifts. They communicate with clarity. They connect with empathy. They handle stress with grace. They stop chasing validation and start standing in truth.
From the bedroom to the boardroom, what we’re really talking about here is wholeness. The courage to lead with everything you are = not just the polished, curated bits. This is the future of leadership. It’s bold. It’s real. It’s what I believe leadership is missing.
Ready to bring embodied leadership to your life or business?The conversation starts here. And who knows? It might just change everything.
By Lorraine Crookes – Orgasmic Life
